Stop the endless dating and discover the secrets to exclusivity.
Do you think successful love stories are only for the exceptional few?
Many women struggle in the dating scene because of their misconceptions around dating.
Thinking that you must play hard to get to keep a man interested.
That choosing self-love over putting yourself out there yields better results.
That you must be free of insecurities and neediness.
That you must look and sound perfect all the time.
That you think there’s no true foundation for a relationship unless you have healed all your traumas from childhood.
I’m sorry to be the one to tell you… but these are all LIES.
As a dating coach, I’m here to help you navigate the complexities of digital romance, to confidently prioritize your needs, and ultimately, secure the fulfilling relationship you’ve always wanted.
Keep reading. I’m here to shake things up and send you on the path to true love.
What if I told you that you've been looking in the wrong place?
If you spend more of your time distracting or protecting yourself than showing up in love, we’ve got work to do.
Dating doesn’t have to be a self-esteem killer or a never-ending cycle of disappointment. In fact, it can be an opportunity to strengthen your vision and personal growth.
If not, this might be your experience:
- Waiting endlessly for a man to treat you like you want to be treated
- Questioning if this relationship is right for you
- Having a situationship to use as “filler” for your valuable time
- Having an on-and-off again relationship with ambivalent commitments
The truth is, you don’t remember the last time that you were able to depend on your relationship.
If you don’t have the tools and beliefs that help you succeed in dating, it can often feel like you’re alone. The good news is that you don’t have to do it all on your own. I want to show you how to trust the good, the bad, and the ugly about dating and transform what you know into who you wish to become.
If you think you should be in a relationship by now, think again.
Life does not owe you a predictable relationship, but it might be one of the most meaningful ways life might present itself.
Understanding your worth is a beautiful unraveling. And going to therapy has helped, but now you find yourself overthinking the process. Your heart is occupied with what you wish to feel. In the end, you choose the safest option.
That’s where I come in.
The key to lifelong love isn’t going to come from the “working on myself” treadmill. Nor is it to see friction as a measure of connection and true love.
Imagine creating this instead:
- A long-term sexy vision that creates your best self (and attracts your man)
- A secure relationship that invites the man to take the lead
- A secure relationship that you can depend on
- The freedom to be messy, vulnerable and imperfect
- Have breakthroughs of appreciation, deep respect, and gratitude in the most necessary times
- A superpower to move through intense emotions without feeling like you have to jump ship or lose yourself
If this is what you want in a relationship, then this might be the most important page you ever read. I’m going to show you how you can get boo’d up with the man you’ve been desiring your whole life.
I’m your dating coach, Jennifer.
I don’t think many teenagers would own up to this, but for me, it was true. I started smoking cigarettes because I wanted to get closer to my crush.
“Can I bum a smoke?”
This was my eloquent way of snagging time with someone in the school courtyard. He spoke another language fluently, drove a nice sports car, and was way too unbothered to comply to social conventions. A naughty and appealing demeanor that contrasted my feelings of inadequacy during that time. This boy gave me not much, but just enough attention for me to make me try harder to earn his interest. Deprived of supportive relationships at home, every little interaction had extreme meaning to me. Fast forward to my early 30’s and I found myself in an all too familiar dynamic, quietly telling myself that this was different, and tortured over the new, unexplainable attraction which was destroying my self esteem and confidence.
I stayed in a situationship with a man for 4 years and it was agonizing. I made emotionally unavailable men the centre of my life because that was what I was used to.
I tolerated behaviour and dynamics in relationships that weren’t healthy for me and I was fearful to let any man know that they could hurt me.
I avoided the possibility that someone would think that I was too anxious, too jealous, too insecure, or too much. This made me become an expert at ghosting, casual sex, manipulation, and criticism.
Deep down, I desperately craved intimacy, love and security so I was either overly attached or casually seeing partners who I wasn’t really interested in romantically. In the discomfort of realizing what I was avoiding – the possibility that I could be too much – I had another thought:
If I don’t overcome this, I will spend the rest of my life using my fear of rejection and abandonment to push men away.
This is when I started my journey to change what I was used to. When I challenged these harmful beliefs and developed a new framework, I reclaimed all my painful experiences and transformed my pain into my most trusted asset.
I now live in a world of intimacy and feel supported in everything I do.
It doesn’t mean that I got everything that I wanted. What it means is that I manage my attachments with confidence and ease, while encouraging patience in areas where I would’ve finished showing up.
Not only did I strengthen the secure, romantic relationship that I’ve always wanted, but I also improved my interpersonal relationships across the board.
All of this is learnable. And once you master these fundamental tools, you will:
- Feel so loved and worthy that men can’t help but be drawn to you
- Gain respect and support from men
- Heal your deepest wounds without turning men away
- Eliminate the pressure to be the “perfect partner”
- Not rely on your sex and seduction to affirm your connection
- Feel deeply connected with yourself and your firm boundaries
- Make yourself a higher priority
My promise is to guide you through your lifelong beliefs, overcome your attachment style, build an inseparable bond with yourself, and attract the man of your dreams.
No more putting yourself above or below anyone else.
Your journey starts with the transformation tools through 1-on-1 coaching.
Putting your trust into my coaching will be the smartest decision you’ll make. Here's why:
Ready for the biggest transformation in your love life?
Get ready for six weeks of:
- Creative attraction and flirting techniques
- Subsconscious reprogramming of your self-sabotaging patterns
- Clearing unhealthy connections that weaken your healing process
- Confident communication skills that appeal to the masculine
- One-on-one calls for accountability and guidance
This may not be for you if …
- You are not rooted in self-growth and ownership
Why? Because I do not work with victims. You are way too powerful for that.
To work with me privately, I hand select four clients to work with each month.
I work with clients who are willing to challenge their identity and beliefs, and transform the way they show up in relationships forever.
While I provide therapy tools for you to use in your practice, let me make this very clear: I am not your therapist.
I am the dating coach that you need to give you the RESULTS.
If you are ready to step into your new self, please secure your application today.